Gather Groups

Gather Groups are small, peer-led groups that bring people together around shared interests in a way that fits real life. They are designed to foster meaningful connection through consistency, conversation, and community without the pressure of a formal program.

Gather Groups are social rather than instructional, relational rather than programmatic, and built around showing up as yourself. They are not classes or committees. Each group meets in person, off-site, and is shaped by the people in it, with leaders serving as connectors rather than experts.

As you peruse our pilot offerings, we ask you to keep in mind a few important details:

  • Groups are for adults only

  • Each group will include 8–15 members, and will be facilitated by 1–2 peer leaders with staff support.

  • Participants may be invited to contribute in different ways based on the group’s culture and goals

  • Groups are built around commitment. Members are encouraged to show up regularly and invest in one another and in the group as a whole.

  • During this pilot phase, we are offering a limited number of groups. If you don’t see a topic that interests you or a meeting time that works, additional Gather Groups are planned for a new cycle launching this fall.

  • To ensure as many people as possible can participate, we ask that each person sign up for only one group.

  • If you are registering with a partner or spouse, please have each person sign up individually.

Hebrew Through Song

For: Anyone with any level of spoken Hebrew experience.

Explore Hebrew through the joy of Israeli music. Participants will sing, listen, and learn Hebrew in a relaxed, welcoming environment. Music reinforces vocabulary, pronunciation, and cultural understanding. All levels welcome.

Who it’s for: A love of music and an interest in Israeli songs

Led by: Nancy Haimi-Cohen

Group size: 10–15

Meets: Leader’s home

When: Weekday evenings (around 8:00 pm) or early weekday afternoons (TBD)

Good to know: Love of music required. If wheelchair access is needed, group limited to 10.

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Taste of the Oral Torah

An accessible introduction to Talmudic and rabbinic literature with guided discussion, English-language sources, and optional small-group learning.

Who it’s for: Anyone interested in Jewish learning

Led by: Raziel Haimi-Cohen

Group size: 8–15

Meets: Leader’s home, rotating homes, or TBD

When: Weekday afternoons or evenings

Good to know: Laptops or tablets encouraged.

For: Anyone interested in studying

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Walk and Listen

For: Women of any age

A low-pressure outdoor walking group. Listen to your own audiobook or podcast. Conversation optional. Headphones welcome.

Who it’s for: Women of any age

Led by: Jordana Edelstein

Group size: Approx. 15

Meets: Outdoor location (TBD)

When: Weekdays or weekends

Good to know: Your welcome to bring headphones or strike up a conversation

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Women's Plant Based Potluck Shabbat

For: Women who are interested in plant based Shabbat

Celebrate Shabbat with good food and great company. A rotating-host potluck featuring vegetarian or vegan dishes.

Who it’s for: Women

Led by: Amy Eisenstein and Elizabeth Miller

Group size: Up to 14

Meets: Rotating group members’ homes

When: Friday nights after services

Good to know: Participants bring a dish. Regular participation encouraged.

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Women’s Pickleball (55 and Under)

For: Women 55 and under

An outdoor pickleball group for women of all skill levels focused on fun, fitness, and friendly play.

Who it’s for: Women under 55

Led by: Alissa Namm

Group size: Up to 12

Meets: Outdoor courts (TBD)

When: Weekdays between 10:00 am–1:00 pm

Good to know: Bring your own pickleball paddle.

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Mahj-el Tov!

For: Anyone!

A fun, friendly mahjong group for all levels. Players grouped by experience for comfort and enjoyment.

Who it’s for: Everyone with a knowledge of how to play mahjong (this is not a class in learning to play)

Led by: Katy Engel

Co-Leader: Debra Weinstein

Group size: Up to 16

Meets: Coffee shop

When: Weekend afternoons

Good to know: Mahjong sets provided as available. Participants may be asked to bring their own.

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Home Gardening

For: Anybody interested in gardening.

A relaxed, discussion-based group for gardeners of all experience levels covering outdoor gardens and houseplants. Concludes with a visit to the Union County Master Gardeners Demonstration Garden.

Who it’s for: Anyone interested in gardening

Led by: Marty Erman and Craig Rosenthal

Group size: Approx. 12

Meets: TBD

When: Weekdays or weekends

Good to know: Beginners welcome. Participants should note plant allergies. Tools needed only if hands-on projects are chosen by the group.

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The Page Turners

For: Couples in their 50s and 60s.

A couples’ book club reading contemporary literary fiction and classic works with monthly discussions.

Who it’s for: Couples in their 50s and 60s

Led by: Allan and Jenny Tananbaum

Group size: Up to 10

Meets: Rotating group members’ homes

When: Weekdays or weekends (TBD)

Good to know: Participants purchase their own books. Regular attendance expected.

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Conservative Study Group

For: Anyone

Thoughtful discussion of classical liberal and American conservative ideas using books and articles in a respectful setting.

Who it’s for: Anyone interested

Led by: Mark Schuman

Group size: Up to 10

Meets: TBD

When: Weekday evenings

Good to know: Access to books and articles required. Commitment to respectful dialogue expected.

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Scrapbooking

For: Anyone

A hands-on, creative group focused on preserving memories through scrapbooking. Participants will work on personal projects in a supportive, shared setting, with access to tools and supplies.

Who it’s for: Anyone

Led by: Angel Strauss

Group size: Up to 12

Meets: Leader’s home

When: Weekdays or weekends

Good to know: Bring photos and a scrapbook if you have one. Shared supplies and tools provided.

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Walking Group

For: Seniors

A walking group designed for seniors who enjoy staying active outdoors while connecting with others at a comfortable pace.

Who it’s for: Seniors

Led by: Joni Sweetwood

Group size: 6–10

Meets: Outdoor location

When: Weekdays or weekends

Good to know: Participants should be comfortable walking for 60 minutes. Schedule may vary.

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The Temple Builders

For: Adults of any age

A hands-on makers group inspired by Tikun Olam. Participants collaborate on small building, fixing, or crafting projects that address real needs within the Temple or local community. All skill levels welcome.

Who it’s for: Adults of any age

Led by: Michael Fiterman

Group size: Up to 15 (pilot)

Meets: Homes, coffee shops, outdoor locations, or TBD

When: Weekdays or weekends

Good to know: Materials vary by project. Interest in problem-solving and teamwork encouraged. Potential partnerships or project funding may be explored.

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Baseball Talk (Met’s Fans Welcome

For: Anyone

A relaxed, social group for baseball fans, whether diehard or casual, to talk all things baseball with a special affection for the Mets. Expect lively conversation, shared opinions, and plenty of season-long commentary in a welcoming, informal setting.

Who it’s for: Baseball fans of all levels (diehard and casual)
Led by: Scott Kessler

Group size: Approximately 15–20
Meets: Coffee shops, restaurants, outdoor locations, or TBD
When: Weekends (timing TBD)
Good to know: No expertise required, just an interest in baseball. Regular participation is encouraged.

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Supporting our Parents: Adult Children of Local Transplants

For: Adult kids of older adults new to Union County area, typically sandwich generation

Support and discussion for adults helping parents or in-laws adjust after relocating nearby. Share experiences and strategies.

Led by: Suzanne Samuel

Who it’s for: Adult Children Supporting Parents relocated to the greater Westfield area/Union County

Group size: 15–20

Meets: Coffee shops or restaurants

When: Weekday afternoons or evenings

Good to know: Informal discussion-based group.

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